Here is the statement the star who had twin sons via a surrogate in 2008 posted on his official site:
A few months ago I decided to write my memoirs, a project I knew was going to bring me closer to an amazing turning point in my life. From the moment I wrote the first phrase I was sure the book was the tool that was going to help me free myself from things I was carrying within me for a long time. Things that were too heavy for me to keep inside. Writing this account of my life, I got very close to my truth. And thisis something worth celebrating.
For many years, there has been only one place where I am in touch with my emotions fearlessly and that’s the stage. Being on stage fills my soul in many ways, almost completely. It’s my vice. The music, the lights and the roar of the audience are elements that make me feel capable of anything. This rush of adrenaline is incredibly addictive. I don’t ever want to stop feeling these emotions. But it is serenity that brings me to where I’m at right now. An amazing emotional place of comprehension, reflection and enlightenment. At this moment I’m feeling the same freedom I usually feel only on stage, without a doubt, I need to share.
Many people told me: “Ricky it’s not important”, “it’s not worth it”, “all the years you’ve worked and everything you’ve built will collapse”, “many people in the world are not ready to accept your truth, your reality, your nature”. Because all this advice came from people who I love dearly, I decided to move on with my life not sharing with the world my entire truth. Allowing myself to be seduced by fear and insecurity became a self-fulfilling prophecy of sabotage. Today I take full responsibility for my decisions and my actions.
If someone asked me today, “Ricky, what are you afraid of?” I would answer “the blood that runs through the streets of countries at war…child slavery, terrorism…the cynicism of some people in positions of power, the misinterpretation of faith.” But fear of my truth? Not at all! On the contrary, It fills me with strength and courage. This is just what I need especially now that I am the father of two beautiful boys that are so full of light and who with their outlook teach me new things every day. To keep living as I did up until today would be to indirectly diminish the glow that my kids where born with. Enough is enough. This has to change. This was not supposed to happen 5 or 10 years ago, it is supposed to happen now. Today is my day, this is my time, and this is my moment.
These years in silence and reflection made me stronger and reminded me that acceptance has to come from within and that this kind of truth gives me the power to conquer emotions I didn’t even know existed.
What will happen from now on? It doesn’t matter. I can only focus on what’s happening to me in this moment. The word “happiness” takes on a new meaning for me as of today. It has been a very intense process. Every word that I write in this letter is born out of love, acceptance, detachment and real contentment. Writing this is a solid step towards my inner peace and vital part of my evolution.
I am proud to say that I am a fortunate homosexual man. I am very blessed to be who I am.
RM
Do you care?? Do you think it matters that he’s come out the closet??? Are you still there????





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Everybody knows this already, we all knew he was in the closet.
OMFG I CAN’T BELIEVE THIS!!!!
HE MUST BE LYING!!!!!
THERE IS NO FUCKING WAY RICKY “LA VIDA LOCA” MARTIN IS GAY!!!!!!!!!!!
/sound of self-inflected gunshot
LOLMAOROFLROFLROFLROFL(still)ROFL
Rickie…. WE ALREADY KNEW.
no one cares ricky martin #irrelevant
Can someone explain for me why I am all of a sudden seeing words with the number sign # in front of them??? What does this mean?
#jointwitter
I don’t wanna join twitter…lol
did he really have to write all of that???
Congrats to him being able to say it publicly, not that it was any of our business.
true
Agreed. Its not my business.
Never really believed the rumors back in the day. But I guess it’s cool he’s comfortable enough with him self to address it now..Maybe he’s gonna work on a come back.
Who’s next, Clay Aiken?????!!!
he already announced his homosexuality: http://scrapetv.com/News/News%20Pages/Entertainment/Images/clay-aiken-gay-people-magazine.jpg
There really needs to be a sarcasm font…….
Seriously! Things go go over heads they fly
um excuse me for trying to show him the magazine cover. if clay hadn’t announced his homosexuality then i would say oh yeah he’s being sarcastic because obviously clay is gay, but since he did make the announcement i was showing him the magazine cover.
#getalife. is it fun for you guys to jump on the oh lets try and make someone feel silly bandwagon. #epicfail because my intentions were good.
Read her latest post she still doesn’t get it……..
#epicfail #getalife to you he was being sarcastic. your truth doesn’t have to be mine. it’s funny you came back to this post to try and bash me again… #internetthug #getalife
In a shocker stunning absolutely everyone, today Water announced that it is, contrary to popular belief, wet.
omg….too funny!
this is news?
No shit Ricky…forreal? How could someone not know this already…?
everyone knew you were are queerbait already… don’t need those kids though.
One down, one to go…. I’m talking about you Ne-Yo
Uh, I knew that forever. It is obvious. He shook his ass and spoke so not like a male to me that it wasn’t even funny. Glad he feels a weight lifted off his shoulder, but I could care less.
Not surprised at the news at all. Congrats for him coming out though.
oh snap someone owes me 20 bucks from grade 8
Of course he is.