Steve Harvey giving more relationship tips in this interview where he talks about his new book “Straight Talk No Chaser” where he says that 99.9% of men can’t be “just friends” with a female. Thoughts?
“I’m Incapable Of Having Female Friends…” Steve Harvey
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I am a guy and i agree with him 100%
he’s right. most of my women friends i’ve hit already and the few i haven’t i want to. in fact most of my women friends – the women i speak to on the regular – are friends with benefits type situations.
the women i haven’t hit yet know i want to beat. in fact women do this same shit – you keep that side dick on deck in case that main nigga you trying to work fall through or isn’t hitting it right or whatever. the difference is that men would hit all/most of their female friends where women might only hit like two of their male friends.
the biggest difference with males for the most part is that true heterosexual males have a very wide criteria for the women they’d smash. like straight dudes don’t rate heauxs. there’s no 1-10 scale for women. it’s either – yes or no. Women have a strong criteria for the niggas they let beat. women might only work their ideal range and have no reason to deviate cuz there is always another nigga on deck.
of course this applies to sex and not dating or marriage – but even then this applies. every woman knows a guy who is with a real broke down broad and everybody is like why? because women value aesthetics in other women more than men do.
an example of this is TI and Tiny. Tiny is not the best looking broad in the world you dig and heauxs praly throwing it at homeboy left and right – but that’s his broad and he’s serious about that.
What about Carla and Shirley? I have guy friends and I’m able to be friends with them but they’ve let it be known I could cross the line…..it’s me that’s like h-to-the-NO!!!!
That means that these guys are not your true “friends”. Women seem to have the hardest time understanding this, and act surprised when a guy they thought were their friend, only wanted to hit it if the opportunity presented itself.
HAHAH yeah this girl is clueless
I have always said two people that are “ATTRACTED” to one another cannot be friends… but “CANNOT be friends” is such strong verbiage still… you can be “friends”, unless there is some law of nature that prohibits friends from finding each other sexually “doable”… because you are a MATURE ADULT, who is not inclined to rape every woman he meets on sight is the very reason you can be friendly towards each other. Some men do have trouble controlling these animal instincts… but it is FAR less than 99% of them. Would I have sex with an attractive set of long legs… into a nice firm ass, hour glassing into a slim torso and exploding into beautiful breasts and a pretty smile??? of course. what self respecting man wouldn’t… but do I HAVE to??? No. Am I going to stick around until I can? Perhaps. But aren’t we “Friends” in the meantime? To say I wouldn’t turn down a chance to hit is one thing, but to say we absolutely could NOT or are “incapable” being friends is another thing. I BELIEVE that my tactic is that of most gentlemen… I know my personal boundaries and limitations. I know where I am the weakest… and the strongest. I have had PLENTY of sex in my life, so as a mature adult, it’s not like a kid in a candy shop anymore… I don’t HAVE to fuck you to feel content with our relationship, however, we STILL aren’t going out for drinks… life has taught me where that may lead… and if she is as mature and respectful as I, we can absolutely enjoy each others company while conducting business from time to time. Hey, I’m not saying shit isn’t a challenge… but I love the game… I love the control. sexual anxiety is a heartless, homewrecking bitch if you let her take control of your life… but if you control her… there are many beneficial, long lasting relationships out there to take advantage of (other than sex). Hell, If I couldn’t be friends with, without fucking, beautiful ladies, I’d be out of a job in my industry, so I know it can be done. Just takes a level of maturity and self control many men (and women) lack… but like I said, nowhere near 99% in my opinion.
Cliff notes from your long ass paragraph:
“Just like Steve Harvey said, I cannot be completely platonic friends with an attractive woman because I still want to have sex with her, and when the opportunity to sleep with said woman does not present itself, I shall talk around the subject unendingly and appear well adjusted and satisfied.”
Absolutely hit the nail on the head. As a matter of fact I enjoy having beautiful women as friends .. Why not, often they have perspective and wisdom that adds value to our interaction.
He must have control issues. Even if I want to sleep with a woman I’m still able to just chill with her. I just get my fix before doing it.
Fuck Steve Harvey and his relationship advice.
he’s totally correct. my cute female friends I already hit. the ones I haven’t are because they ugly. a descent looking guy and girl will not be just friends without sex/feelings being involved in the near future. One of them will cave in first.
This is pretty true. I’d definitely smash all my hot friends given the chance, and the ones that aren’t cute, i’m not interested in them anyway so it’s whatever.
That’s not true. That’s just the opinion of one man who obviously has never had a friend of the opposite sex before (which is strange no matter who you are). It all depends on the ability each party has to control themselves, and be mature human beings without thinking ablut banging the other all of the time. Men, women are NOT sex toys! Women, men are NOT sex toys! If you possess this one piece of common sense, then you should be able to have a friend of the opposite sex.
who cares what this dipshit has to say. he talks from both sides of his mouth anyway. he claims he has no female friends but in the preface of the book he’s promoting he references that he has them. he needs to stick to comedy.
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