This week both AskMen.com and Cosmopolitan released the results of surveys which asked their readers how many sexual partners was too many for the opposite sex. The Cosmo survey found that after the 20th partner, for men and women, you’re basically a whore while the AskMen.com survey found that after 10 partners men consider a woman sexually promiscuous.
Tell us your real name, how many people you’ve slept with and your thoughts in the comments section.





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2 in 2001
4 in 2003
8 in 2004
34 in 2005
20 in 2006
4 in 2011.
i’m balling ese! i switch these niggaz like prams in ma neighborhood
I am 31 and I “slept” with around 200 women. I got 2 STD’s claymidia twice and got crabs once. That pretty good, because I slept with about half of them with no condom (in my early 20′s I thought I was invincible). And for all you women that say “Ewww” to me for going bare-back.. I am very good looking and got money I certainly if I wanted to go bare-back on you too, you would more than happily accept. Trust me
the women who only care about money and things would go for it probably. wifey material women like Mrs Obama would not.
I can see a point with sleeping with 200 women… can you see my point in wasting time with them while the real gold is the one who turned you down for “bare-back”?
Mrs. Obama? Those tall dark skinned professional women love me the most!!! Luckily thats the type I like the most, too
Stop fronting.. a lot of dudes had std’s in their life. A lot of women too.. I know this sexy girl who got herpes from her boyfriend who cheated on her. I am sure she slept with a very small amount of men, but hey.. you never know what your man is doing behind your back.
i’m a collegiate sprinter – major program. all i do is run fast – fuck bitches.
so right now i’d say i’m at like 125-150.
the guy who wants to bare back the world traveling on a crab boat with a chlamidia life jacket on totally distracted my response.
vomit. lolol @ blaming money for having stds. poor people. sheesh. i’ve fucked atleast 20 guys but no man i am with would ever know such a thing. just whore-ish activies. shit happens
I’m a 26 year old female and I’ve slept with 13 people; the majority in college.
I’m 28 & I’ve slept with almost 40 females and caught Herpes! =)
Do you mention that to chicks before you get down? Or do you let them find out on their own, several months later?
lol After finding out I have it , my casual sex life went out the window, : / now I only sex with girls I date and who I tell before hand. Plus I’m on that little blue magic pill called Valtrex. If I wouldn’t not have caught it I would had been at least by 70 females by now.
At least you’re honest. However, I hope that you’re aware that even while on the “little blue magic pill”, STDs can still be transmitted, if you’re having unprotected sex. Even though condoms aren’t 100% effective, it lowers the chance of transmission considerably. Just sayin’…
I know, while on the pill and a condom the rate of transmission is about 2%.
im 22 and been w/ 3 women. no std’s, no nothing.
Unless a chick has a disease of some sort, I’d rather not know… (The “Out of Sight, Out of Mind” theory) cause, for dudes, even though we know that you’re not a virgin, we still think that any other dude, even one, is way too many. We’d like to think that we’re the first to conquer that ass. Like you have never had it the way that we give it to you, before. Especially if we’re in a relationship with a woman.
well written
I have not slept with any women, however I have seen Star Wars over a thousand times!
and how old r u if yur younger then 17ok if not yur life is horrible
^ word
I have no words for some of you. oh actually I do, one word that is. AIDS
no body ask u yur opion on anybody
Wow. You guys are filthy. Sex should be fun for married couples but it never is because we want different experiences. Its not enough getting food and water and surviving we have conquered the world to the point where we are starting our own destruction.
man shut up to damn late for all dat shit u talkin
No i have not had sex! but you know what? i bet i can add up all the change in your purse… very fast!!!
Hahaha I read this in the voice almost immediately!!!
Who cares how many partners you had. Guys get so uptight about this. You want your girl to be a freak without actually being a freak.
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stop
I’m 30yr old male sexy chocolate is what they call me im at 200 women that I’ve slept with I stay with a 3-5 team roster …
Im a 29 year old woman and i lost my virginity at the age of 14. I’ve been with 10 men. Never had any STDs. Im shocked at some of the above comments. smh
24 yrs old. ~50women. Crabs once. Otherwise i’ve been clean
29 year old man. 20 Women, 60 Men. claymidia twice, HIV negative.
O__O
NIGGGGGGGA GTFO NOW!
Are you openly bi? Or a dl brother?
im 29 and i have only ever slept with prostitutes. i have banged around 100 hookers to date.
ESCAPE THE FIRES OF HELL!!! DON’T GO!!
WORD ^^^
Falling right into Satan’s plan.
hahah i love how a post about sex has the most comments. Life files should change their name to sex files and just post sex related news!
21 years old, 5 women. Had a long term relationship, but if it wasn’t for that, probably would have been at 15 by now!
24 YR OLD FEMALE….0 PARTNERS.
Whoa… good for you!
Don’t wait too long. Sex is overrated.
if sex is overrated then y tell her dont wait to long u just contradicted yur self
33 yr. old Male… 2 partners. Both were long term, committed relationships. Celibate for 2 yrs., by choice.
love it!
29 here, I got the H, basically my second fuck at 19, been with about 5 women total, scratched my 7 year inch two months ago. Praying for arranged marriage to get back into the shit.
Its crazy b/c I rediscovered and confirmed my H after the 7 year inch. I told the chick, next time we meet, we need to go to a museum. “took me to the museum” should be slang for “gave me herpes”.
I been in Mexico City for 10 months, I dont believe in paying for it, shit. But coulda done 100 easy for less than 3 grand
the.LifeFiles said: “Tell us your real name, how many people you’ve slept with and your thoughts in the comments section.”
If ever there were a post to be anonymous in, this would definitely be it. Nice try, tho…
Based God fucked all my bitches :[ and I’m still virgin
Thank you based God
18 year old female, about 15 males
Your number is way too high to be 18.
Slut.
Keep your panties on….maybe you will find someone to be with you longer than one night.
That is a pretty high number! I’m not judging, though. Maybe you should stick to just sleeping with guys you’re in a relationship with.
And whoever just called you a slut, is a dick. No one deserves to be called such names.
i’m 32 and i have only been with1 man.
oh, and zero women, for those who may ask. LOL
Fascinated by the comments.
Sex is addictive – hence those in the 200 hundreds, after the 57th person, you can’t possibly know what it’s like to make love, and stare into the eyes of the persons eyes – wait, they’re probably not even facing you.
Nevermind.
How sick… I feel tremendously sorry for alot of ppl. There’s no way SOME of u can look in the mirror & believe ‘I’m a whole person’. I say ‘some’ becuz I’m sure some of u are lying to urself AND others, DAILY!
I lost count.. but when I lost count I was around 200. So my estimation is that I’ve been with close to 250 women. I would say 200 guaranteed sex, and the rest just BJ’s. I am 34 years old and only had 1 real GF that I loved and that lasted less than year.. since then I found living like a Roman Emperor is best. I am decent looking about 5’6 tall and nice build. Of all the tricks I learned to get that girl that says “no” prior to even coming, creating those expectations how easily they turn. For example I’m kissing, I saw something stupid like “I wonder if a can keep a straight face and talk normal while calling someone while getting a BJ” as a joke at first, then the competitive spirit in the women comes out, I am 90% at this. LOL so I call a friend and just BS with him while she BJ me. as a matter of fact I actually had this chart I filled out in mid 20′s called the BJS rankings (kinda like BCS get it? lol) and I would kinda show it to the guys and get a laugh. Like I had this girl named wendy ranked at #1 and I told her about it and she was fkn proud, but then I met this girl named Angel that just rocked it and moved up and bumped her down to #2… first girl got so pissed never talked with me again. I learned not to show my BJS ranking chart again to a woman. I lost my virginity on the floor of the woods, and I pulled out and shot it on her stomach just like in the movies how I learned. since then it was back seat, hotel, behind dumpsters wherever. Amazing half of these women I was bareback on, and not a single disease. I have since slowed down, and maybe 2 to 4 women a year, I dont really like 1 nighters, and just seem more focused on myself at this point. I got all my money saved not wasting is on a meaningless and overpriced ring for marriage and all the other money waste that comes with marriage. you wouldnt believe the amount of adult dating sites, where married women are trying to get laid… I’ve met several married women. they are all whores to me. I say it is a major feat for a man to lay as much as I did, when it is 1000% easier for a women to get laid hence why they get called the whore. Any woman even a BBW if she brushes her teeth and all that goes out she will get laid, if she makes it known.. not the same for guys, at all..
All of my relationships end with the woman saying this.. “ya know I dont want to just f-ck.” some of them say it at 1 week, some take up to a year to say it.. then I move to the next one. Treat fine women like dirt, they are sick they actually like it.. slap em while hitting it, yank their hair. One girl came in knocked she didn’t have a chance to say anything and I had a handful of hair and drug her to the counter and bent her over and beat it up hard for 20 mins. then we proceeded to watch a movie after that, I even made soup for her. Some women I dont even kiss… the thing with these women is the hotter they are, treat them more like sh-t… Don’t even kiss em, and when you f-ck them do it hard..
I’m an eighteen year old female, and I’ve had zero partners.
I’m currently in college, and believe me, I have had the opportunity to have sex countless times. I believe that sex shhould be with someone you truly love or care about.
Yes, there are still some women in this day and age with self-respect!
Before like all guys when you’re younger you think the more the better, I am 30 now. And I had around 15 partners, & I often avoided sleeping with sluts, or girls with too many partners in their past. WHen I grew older in chinese medicine that I did a good thing. Chinese ppl look youthful & young no matter age, anyways that made think they were up to something. I am 30 now & I look 25, I feel great my energy level is through the roof. & my sex drive is extremely high, That being said, if you sleep with too many ppl you age faster. IN chinese is believed that, which makes total sense, look at all the famous ppl with $$ they try to make themselves look young, but as they past the teen age, they age extremely fast. & often ppl at teens look like their 25, or 30. & when you asked them, they kissed many guys, & have sex with many different men. Their is no exact # of what is right, but too many is clear, EX: if you’re 19, you have more then 2, that’s starting to be way too many. Psychically & mentality you age extremely fast!!
This factor has to do with a lot that our modern medicine cannot make sense out of it.