Little 7-year old Bobby Montoya from Denver, Colorado loves “any girl stuff” and dresses like a girl but that hasn’t helped him achieve his latest goal, getting accepted into the Girl Scout association.
What do you think? Should he be a Girl Scout?
Little 7-year old Bobby Montoya from Denver, Colorado loves “any girl stuff” and dresses like a girl but that hasn’t helped him achieve his latest goal, getting accepted into the Girl Scout association.
What do you think? Should he be a Girl Scout?
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Uh Huh…..it is definitely looking like the prophecies were correct. Just remember “Don’t Look Back”
Let the Fuckery Begin. I can see it now. Public and private restrooms will read Women/Post Op and Men/Dike
no. he shouldn’t be a girl scout because it’s for girls – and he is not a girl.
when he’s an adult he can choose whatever gender things he identifies with. as a child – normative behavior needs to be enforced.
and his mother came on camera and confirmed it. she’s an idiot and i bet there is no dad around.
he needs to go to boy scouts and get his ass kicked for prancing around in them peter pan boots. and I’m not being mean – he needs to see what it means to be a male and he needs to toughen up. he needs for his idiot mother to let him go so she has less of an influence on him.
but you’re not being mean?
your an idiot and the reason these kids are commiting suicide.. Maybe he shouldnt be a girl scout… but he for sure doesnt need to get his ass kicked. Gender is socially constructed.. and “normal” is objective
gender is socially constructed to a certain degree. but testosterone is genetic. so i submit that you’re the fucking idiot. to wit:
boys are violent. all boys – in every civilization. throughout history – EVERYWHERE. it’s what happens. getting your boy popped a few times when he’s young – and then teaching him how to handle himself is IDEAL. analogy: your kids play in the dirt and are exposed to hundreds and thousands of pathogens – this primes the immune system and gives them a strong one for life. you keep your kid in the house BECAUSE THAT’S WHAT HE LIKES (or because you’re afraid he’ll get sick) – and his immune system is weak and he’s forever suboptimal.
the first mistake here is that the MOTHER allows this and in fact defends his position – by allowing him to dress like a girl and buying him girl’s toys (this validates a position that she obviously created). You think that those interests have nothing to do with the fact that he has no male figure and is thus modeling himself after the only close adult figure? You understand the concept of modeling – don’t you? And you understand that one strong aspect of non-traditional behavior in males is the absence of a suitable male to model?
So the mother knows this and perpetuates this: she’s unfit as fuck. He needs to be around his father – or an adult male figure. He needs to play with boys – get popped a few times and learn that he’ll need to “man” up in order to deal with typical male peers in his life. If he decides as an adult to still be feminine – that’s fine because you as a parent still primed him for the typical scenario – the choice from there is his. But if you prime him now as a fucking defect – he’s fucked going forward. it’s ridiculously stupid and criminal.
Or he could join the fucking girl scouts – even though he’s biologically a boy. LMAO – unless I see some genetic testing that shows he’s got chromosomal defects and has a couple of extra X chromosomes – his mother is a fucking idiot – and so are you.
Pull your skirt down and think, asshole.
You make a lot of assumptions.. I’m a male, was raised by only my father… and have never gotten into a fight in my life! not violent.
and your analogy is just as dumb as you are… Girls must also learn to deal with boys in the real world.. should they get “popped”
No.. because that is not the only way to deal with people…
Just quit
you’re an idiot.
i’ll explain. the way boys and girls socialize within their own genders is different. boys are far more combative with one another (and with girls when they are young) than girls are. so a boy who is conditioned to socialize now with girls has maladaptive socialization skills with boys. this learning at this time is HARD WIRED INTO THE BRAIN as the brain – almost all of our cerebral cortex develops AFTER BIRTH – DURING EARLY CHILDHOOD.
boys from really early on are conditioned to not hit girls – and that conditioning is usually ironclad by school-aged years. not so for other boys.
this is the reasoning between gender-centric (girl only/boy only) schooling – a schooling method BTW which is VERY SUCCESSFUL. Google it if you disagree. you won’t though – because you’re not interested in discourse.
of course i make a lot of assumptions. I’ll make another. never gotten into a fight in your life? I guarantee you that i know how successful you are in life right now. Unless you’re a savant – that is you have superlative skills in one area that gave you a social pass – i guarantee you mediocrity in whatever you do.
testosterone – positively associated with aggression in males – is also positively associated with success. IOW the boys/men who produce more testosterone are more successful in everything they do in life.
Now for the kicker. Activity in life can up or down regulate testosterone – even in children – throughout life. Placing boys in competitive and aggressive situations from youth makes them more aggressive and helps them PRODUCE MORE TESTOSTERONE throughout life – which is positively associated with their success.
Doing the opposite – means the child produces more estrogen – is less aggressive – and this is associated with maladaptive behavior – as well as feelings of inadequacy – for GENETIC BOYS.
In short, this mother sucks. and your dad sucks for not putting your in more aggressive situations in your life – which is probably why you suck right now.
good luck with that. it’s no coincidence that your screenname is donnie darko – a maladapted passive aggressive loner who essentially committed ritualistic suicide.
I’m a dick. But i’m not wrong.
Peace.
You’re a very sick person. People like you are the reason transgendered people are getting beatup and killed.
this is %100 percent right.
people like you are the reason why people are getting beat up and
killed. you’re afraid.
my child has a 165 IQ and is in gifted programs. I’ve never raised him any differently other than for his special school programs. he plays with regular children – he fights with regular children and he solves problems with regular children. childhood is practice for adulthood, right?
when kids first started making fun of him for being smart and speaking (and reading and doing math and reasoning like an adult) he came home crying. I didn’t take him out of school – i didn’t justify it and say it was ok to be different. I told him – hey you gotta handle this. Let me know what you need to handle it and I’ll get it for you. He said, “I need to learn how to fight.”
Taught him how to fight – got him into Krav Maga. He learned – he got strong. The next time a kid smacked him in the back of the head -he punched the kid in the throat. NOW NO ONE MESSES WITH HIM – and he has a strong peer group because all the other kids who were bullied have rallied behind him. He’s a pacifist by nature – he’s very peaceful – but even peaceful kids need to fight sometimes. He understands that now.
SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO FIGHT. IT DOESN’T MATTER THAT YOU’RE DIFFERENT. IT’S HUMAN NATURE.
It’s the parents who can’t see this who are sick because they have set their children up FOR FAILURE. I pity your children because they’ll spend their lives under the boot of some bully because you’re too pussy to teach them any better.
congratulations. welcome to tyranny. save some money for your kid’s therapy.
children who get beat up or killed are parenting fails. children who can’t handle themselves are often raised by parents who can’t handle themselves. unfortunately i’m not you. Only the weak would blame weakness on the strong.
AND FYI: I played college football and there were at least three dudes on my team who were gay. and a lot of people on campus knew this. I guarantee you that no one would fuck with them though. Being different does not equal being weak. Weakness is a learned skill like anything else. Keep teaching your kids weakness and can’t understand why they can’t be strong.
You’re too dumb. beyond reproach.
For those of you who believe that gender identification is a product of childhood experiences, how do you explain how two twins, presumably brought up identically (at least for the first several years of life) end up with one of them identifying as a girl?
http://www.firstcoastnews.com/news/local/story.aspx?storyid=231235
When I have a child I will cry for all the sin she/he will be faced with.
I saw a documentary on transgender people and this child from the time he could talk told his mother that he was a girl. Yes, there is a father in the family. The parents didn’t encourage him AT ALL to identify with being a girl. In fact, his mother was devastated, she loved her little girl and wanted him to be a girl. She decided to love this child and let him be who he was. He wanted to wear dresses, play with dolls, have long hair, be a cheerleader, etc. This child’s brain is female and is wired as such. He was born with the wrong parts. It was a very interesting documentary and cleared alot up for me.
Correction, she loved her little boy and wanted him to be a boy. Same with his father. They, the parents, have been in counseling, etc.
So what should/would if he believed he was a dog? Or an alien?
exactly! finally something reasonable.
So wrong on so many levels. My, how country has fallen.
Everythingmust now be tolerated, except White people wanting to live among their own race, in a traditional society.
I have been a part of B.S.A. for well over 40 yrs.All the Family. Girls included went to our camps, fishing trips, training camps.
I think Scouts should be for all, open BSA to All and Open GSA to all Just call it Scouts . We are teaching life skills in Both,Teaching Family togetherness,which is needed more now than ever. Sea Scouts, Mili.Scouts CIP all are coed, Bring Scouting into the Now and Future,Help Maintain Family togetherness.