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the.LIFE Files TV: Maxwell Billieon Shares The Top Signs Your Man Is Cheating

by admin on 02/21/2012 · 62 comments

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In this preview of our interview with relationship expert Maxwell Billieon he shares some of the top tips women should look for to know if their man is cheating.  Billieon, the author of new book “Death Of The Cheating Man: What Every Woman Must Know About Men Who Stray” reveals to Isis that if your man has two phones and is constantly taking you out far from his neighborhood, you just may have a problem on your hands.

Full interview where Maxwell Billieon tells us how he became a relationship expert, cheating on women from the age of 10 and why he chose Ray J as the case study for his book coming right up!

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the.LIFE Files ft Maxwell Billieon: Top Signs Your Man Is Cheating Maxwell Billieon
02/22/2012 at 1:37 PM

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Anonymous 02/21/2012 at 4:55 PM

this shit fraudulent.

-that password shit is dead. the quickest way to kill a relationship is to show too much. no surprises, no discovery. my life is not an open book to myself why would i open it up to you? second, flirting is always on the table for my relationships, as are 3somes. i expect you to flirt too – it nurtures the spirit; it keeps you young. relationships aren’t prison. i’m not handcuffing you; all i ask is trust. something happens – let’s talk about it. we might be able to work it out; we might not. i’ll give you the same courtesy.

-same circles of friends? this nigga has no fucking clue what he’s talking about. watch him sell a million books.

-and finally lol – stop the shit. this dude don’t have a woman.

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Speak the truth 02/21/2012 at 6:09 PM

lol

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Anonymous 02/21/2012 at 6:36 PM

I second that – plus this dude does not have a woman!

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Jessica 02/21/2012 at 8:14 PM

I like how you think Anon, are you single and ready to mingle? ;-)

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Anonymous 02/21/2012 at 8:59 PM

you know this.

:D

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umm 02/22/2012 at 12:12 AM

‘this shit fraudulent.’

aw you are so cute with your wording!!! such a scream for therapy. Fascinating. of course you have a playplay opinion about something so miniscule and umimportant. shut the fuck up and read a history book then please do type a 4 page letter on a damn blog.

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Anonymous 02/22/2012 at 1:14 AM

Maxwell, you mad?

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Anonymous 02/22/2012 at 12:08 PM

I agree with ALL of this. Dude is full of bull. No man that has….Dude isnt even worth it. Women if you read the book and believe it after this vid… You lose.

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Chill Life Files 02/21/2012 at 5:07 PM

But why yall giving away the game tho?

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Wenzel Dashington 02/21/2012 at 5:23 PM

Love me some ISIS!

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anon 02/21/2012 at 5:26 PM

+1.

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Anonymous 02/21/2012 at 6:15 PM

He got some good points but I’m not letting a bitch have my passwords #hellnaw

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kristle 02/21/2012 at 6:58 PM

Dude’s kill me cheatin like HIV and Herpes just don’t exist?

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N 02/21/2012 at 8:24 PM

and HPV and Genital Warts……

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N 02/21/2012 at 8:25 PM

Cheatin Nasty Motherfuckers…..

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black 02/21/2012 at 7:01 PM

R) Fuck outta here on all points. Dude is obvious 1) gay 2) a traitor to the male race 3) a firey wet fart homo

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Anonymous 02/21/2012 at 7:19 PM

no straight dude crosses his legs like that.

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Anonymous 02/21/2012 at 7:09 PM

Stop snitchin’!

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Jerm 02/21/2012 at 7:12 PM

Good shit. Pull on the heart strings of these lonely unstable females and sell a million.

“I give my woman all my…”
cut the video off right there.

This nigga cant even be real with his sexuality

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Fame 02/21/2012 at 7:13 PM

Dude gay, wtf he know about anything.
And who the fuck give out passwords.. I’d be damned..nobody does that shit..maybe gay ppl, not straight ppl..u gotta have some privacy to yoself anyway..if yo bitch knew everything about u, she’d leave u, bc u not interesting, u gotta keep her on egg shells

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Rah 02/21/2012 at 7:55 PM

If this guy has a girlfriend then I’m Boris Kudjoe. I’d like to hear his top secrets on how he stays on the DL. What? Too soon?

Making more “Basic Bitch” books. If a man is going to cheat he’ll find a way and you don’t need to buy this wannabe’s book. Spend your money on donating it to charity or buying a book that will help you with your self-esteem.

Lets cover more thought provoking content….we’re in the fucking stone age.

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Kelly 02/21/2012 at 8:20 PM

This guy seems really full of himself, which makes it difficult to take him seriously. I agree you should be able to use each other’s phone, but what’s the deal with having the passwords to everything? Passwords are on a need to know basis.

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That Sh*t Cray 02/21/2012 at 8:25 PM

Who knew John Legend and Fonzworth Bentley had a love child and named him Maxwell Billieon???? Now I know!

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Lovely Leslie 02/21/2012 at 8:29 PM

Great teaser guys!! Looking forward to the rest of the interview. His demeanor aside, he made some really good points.

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GullyGel 02/21/2012 at 9:17 PM

the fact that he’s gay and does not know how to dress…tells you that he’s fully of shit!!!

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ok but.. 02/21/2012 at 9:32 PM

These comments sound angry lol must be true

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Kim 02/21/2012 at 9:56 PM

Can you all provide some thoughtful commentary instead of your suspicions as to his sexuality? Because unless you’ve slept with him, you don’t know shit.

Another opportunity for enlightened dialogue missed due to the collective ignorance of Neanderthals. smdh

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Anonymous 02/21/2012 at 10:28 PM

+1

Internet nerds speculating on somebody else sexuality. He wrote a book what have you done?

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Ru Guevara 02/21/2012 at 10:32 PM

If Ru Paul was attempting to give you advice on how to be a better woman and be in a heterosexual relationship… How receptive would you be to anything HE had to say??

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Kim 02/21/2012 at 10:39 PM

With all due respect, Ru, you sound dumb and that was an awful analogy. Ru Paul is a known drag performer. There’s no mystery, question mark or speculation there. In this case, we’re talking about a guy who wrote a book about relationships and made no assertions as to his own sexuality.

Ru, your arms to short to box with me. Sit down!

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Anonymous 02/21/2012 at 11:10 PM

what are his qualifications to discuss or offer advice on relationships?

what about the fact that almost any and all “real” relationship experts would disagree with EVERY SINGLE ONE OF the points he posted? EVERY SINGLE ONE. He was so wrong in that video it was laughable.

it’s ironic. dumb defends dumb.

so no. 1: a man who comes off as gay diffuses his own credibility when he discusses hetero relationships. no. 2: couple that with the fact that he was on the incompetent side of every issue he discussed, and no. 3: he’s obviously lying about his sexuality in order to lend credibility to his content.

he’s a fucking idiot. he wrote a book and is preying on desperate women to sell it to.

LMAO. good luck with that, and that boxing thing you do. LMAO.

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Kim 02/21/2012 at 11:34 PM

Didn’t I say sit down?

Arms still too short…try doing some stretches…doubt it would work though but it may make you feel good.

Anonymous 02/21/2012 at 11:45 PM

you win. i never argue with retards.

Ru Guevara 02/21/2012 at 11:46 PM

I asked you a question in jest which you decided to not answer but instead reply with disrespect masked in “with all due respect”.

The guy in question has had his sexuality questioned by almost all the people who decided to reply to this post. Though that point alone does not make make him gay, it does call into question why so many people would immediately come to the same conclusion. Can you honestly say that you would recommend a book written by Maxwell Billieon and Ray J as a good source for relationship advice?

You’re asking for thoughtful commentary and enlightened dialogue, yet your replies to both my post can easily be seen as insulting…

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Kim 02/21/2012 at 11:55 PM

Is somebody getting a lil sensitive? Be careful, wouldn’t want people on here to start calling you gay.

Good night

Ru Guevara 02/22/2012 at 12:04 AM

Thank you for the thoughtful commentary and enlightening dialogue.
Have a wonderful night..

Anonymous 02/22/2012 at 12:04 AM

dude. save yourself the time. “she” obviously isn’t interested in cogent discourse and is emotionally invested. it’s why she keeps turning everything around into ad hominem.

Kim 02/22/2012 at 6:58 AM

Okay, I see where the confusion is coming into play. You two guys are working under the assumption you have yet to make a cogent, intelligent argument/statement for me to respond to. Reality check: that has yet to happen.

Anon – I’m arguing ad hominem? Says the guy who called me a retard and questioned whether I’m really a woman. Yeah, you really need to sit down and stay out of this.

Ru – check my original statement. I merely said let’s leave this guy’s perceived sexuality out of this and focus our discourse on the content of the interview. I never said I agree with him on all points, because I don’t. I never said I consider him an expert, because I don’t, merely a man who wrote a book. Do I think your Ru Paul analogy was an awful one? Yup, I stand by that. Do I think he’s obviously lying about his sexuality? No I don’t. If anything, I believe this is all part of a gimmick/character he created. All these assertions you’re making are all assumptions. And you know what happens when you assume…

As for the “arms too short to box…” comment, that’s a Nas reference. Wasn’t meant for you to get all bat shit crazy. So relax. Take some deep breaths, meditate, hug yo momma…do something….it’s not that serious

Anonymous 02/21/2012 at 10:14 PM

This guy needs to go blend a box of razors and down them like a shot of rum and SIT there and think about his reckless fuckin actions.

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iBukk 02/21/2012 at 10:20 PM

Kanye-esque: something about his suit is screaming Kanye and 808′s and Heartbreak

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Mike 02/21/2012 at 10:25 PM

Fuck it I’m gonna say it… This dude seems a little too GAY to be discussing the topic of straight men. And don’t let me start on why the fuck Ray J would endorse such foolishness? This is another book for women to be put in a deeper psychosis about why men cheat! Let me save you some money: HANDLE YOUR BUSINESS, OR THE NEXT CHICK WILL. My price: $FREE.00

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Ru Guevara 02/21/2012 at 10:28 PM

So first the guy who has been divorced/married three times is writing books, making movies and giving advice on how to be in a relationship…

Now we have a obvious homosexual trying to convince us that he is in a relationship with a woman, knows what’s best for a heterosexual relationship and is an “expert” on the subject because he has Ray J to cosign his fuckery.

I don’t have any thing nice to say… So I won’t…

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Kim 02/21/2012 at 10:40 PM

Good! Shutting up is the best decision you made all year.

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Presidents Code 02/21/2012 at 11:14 PM

To everyone that made comments, you should look him up on youtube and see how many kids lives he’s saved through sports like skateboarding. The guy has built skateparks for kids in the hood and Brazilian favelas! He’s married and rich! The guys is married in a ten year relationship so anyone thats hating should get out of the U.S. and see that straight men do come in all shades and styles. BTW, the suit, tie and shoes are all his brand…so while you go and make Nike rich, here’s a powerful brotha from the hood thats made good and brought the wisdom back for us. If you can’t see that then so be it, but don’t be mad when you end up working for him.

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zerotosixty 02/22/2012 at 12:24 AM

that may be the case but this is the first time i’ve been exposed to the guy and he sounds like a real douche with grade school advice.

I’m sure someone will check me, but there used to be people who would go around inserting themselves as inbetweens for charities that operated in the hood. Ultimately they would steer the money to their own pockets and the term they used for them was poverty pimps. This guy, and his type, remind me of the them. They look at a broken system, suit up, change their name, grease down their hair and speak like experts pimping hope. Claiming to understand what other people are missing to find that which they so longingly yearn for…but ultimately they get no further because the advice is flawed–people aren’t one-dimensional, and the author could really care less as long as they’re paid. Hope is an expensive drug.

…and Presidents Code, you didn’t say anything wrong or offensive, but go fuck yourself… just because!

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Kiss 02/22/2012 at 7:21 AM

Wouldn’t it just be EASIER to be single instead of lying and sneaking? Saves a lot of time, energy and possibly someone’s life? Cheating is so 1997…why do that when I can just leave your ass and have “guilt free” fun?! DUH! I’m just saying.

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schrodinger's cat 02/22/2012 at 8:19 AM

It’s really not cheating is just OPP…

…you down with OPP (yeah you know me)
who’s down with OPP (all the ladies)

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Kiss 02/22/2012 at 9:24 AM

Well why involve hurting somone’s feelings when I can just have guilt free “OPP” fun…better?! lol!

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Anonymous 02/22/2012 at 10:43 AM

Men don’t think that way for some reason. B less selfish n immature n no ones feelings should get hurt b/c its established from jump

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nujerudevil 02/22/2012 at 8:53 AM

No one pointed out how cute the interviewer is?? Shocking!

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Anonymous 02/22/2012 at 8:53 AM

they did. above.

her name is isis.

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nujerudevil 02/22/2012 at 9:21 AM

ISIS…UGH!

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rapfan 02/22/2012 at 10:16 AM

He made some good points except for the passwords part. To me it makes the trust forced. You only trust because you have each other’s passwords. Trust shouldn’t be a handcuff.

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I'm mad... 02/22/2012 at 10:37 AM

Ya’ll got so hyped over this shit.

How can anyone be an expert on relationships? You may know some shit here and there. Probably studied in college. Done a few case studies, but that’s about it. The word expert gets used too often.

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truth. 02/22/2012 at 11:20 AM

I agree with dude…. and @Kim… why cheat when you can just break up? yea, that’s oversimplifying it a bit, not taking into consideration length of time invested, kids, child support etc… but at the end of the day, it comes down to mental maturity, self control and most importantly BELIEF in monogamy… which sounds obvious, but some men (and women) simply don’t put much credence in monogamy to begin with, so why would they make a diligent attempt to uphold it in a relationship?

To each his/her own, but if you do believe in the benefits of monogamy and the virtues of family, then what he is saying should make sense to you… This type of talk only comes as a bitter pill to those with no intention of being faithful in the first place…

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Kim 02/22/2012 at 12:28 PM

I didn’t say anything about cheating. I agree with you. I’d break up with someone before cheating on them. And you’re right, it does come down to maturity. It also comes down to respect for the other person.

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truth. 02/22/2012 at 2:43 PM

you said: “Wouldn’t it just be EASIER to be single instead of lying and sneaking? Saves a lot of time, energy and possibly someone’s life?”

I assumed that by “lying and sneaking” you meant cheating, but hey, sorry if that’s not what you meant… :)

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Kim 02/22/2012 at 3:06 PM

LOL! That was Kiss not Kim

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truth. 02/23/2012 at 9:06 AM

I’m retarded. sorry for slandering your name with false accusations Kim :)

dam son! 02/22/2012 at 11:22 AM

why is this homo blowing up straight men???

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RockeeBalboa 02/25/2012 at 11:20 AM

Maybe he was REALLY telling females on how to tell if your man f*cking men?? Could be a possibility…..*shrugs*

Cuz if he like p*ssy, then I like Nicki Minaj’s music.

And I hate her music.

PEOPLE cheat, period. So these same “things” could also apply to a woman (give or take).

I’m happily single until I meet a secure, mature man.

Apparently, finding Bin Laden was easier.

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